Interviewer: Samia B.
Interviewee: “Mr. Pussy”
Why did we interview him: He has a different view on sex, specifically oral sex that you probably haven’t heard before.
SE: Please explain how this scenario takes place.
Mr. P.: Most of the meetings I have had have with women have been a result of ads I have placed on Craigslist offering oral sex. Or I will reply to an ad from a woman asking for oral sex and if she likes my reply, she will respond. Depending on whether the woman is curious or concerned about safety and such things, there will be some back and forth conversationally to establish our compatibility. Maybe some playful sexting. Sharing of pussy & ass pix. Questions about her stamina, if she is multiorgasmic, if she needs recovery time between orgasms, if she likes to be fingered or have her ass or played with while I'm licking her clit. My goal is to give her what she enjoys my goal is to give her what she enjoys and knowing these things in advance eliminates trial and error and fumbling around.
Nearly all of the meetings take place at my house. Given that we are complete strangers to one another, the most awkward moment is that first moment when we meet each other face-to-face for the first time and go into my bedroom. In my experience, needless and nervous chit chat in the beginning spoils the mood and sometimes makes things even more awkward. So my recommendation to women is that we just get started. Most have agreed to this and will just go to my bed and take off as many clothes as they are comfortable taking off. Some will strip completely to the nude and others will just take off bottoms or hike up a skirt. 😎
I usually stay clothed. The main reason for this is to emphasize that this is all about her and her pleasure. If I stay clothed then I'm not playing with myself or suggesting any other hidden motives. That usually helps women relax a little bit more. Also, it's just kind of hot and emphasizes the idea that she is in control. And that I'm just there for her pleasure. I like that.
So, usually she simply lays down and opens her legs and I get between them and start kissing her thighs and very gently licking and kissing her pussy. Even though I've done this a number of times, I'm still nervous too. We are new to one another and it's just awkward. But I tell people I meet that after a few minutes of licking the awkwardness disappears. And it does. Always. All of the other nonsense goes away and then we remember why we got together in the first place. Soon she starts responding to the licks and flicks of my tongue and the moaning begins and the awkwardness is over and now I'm down to business. 😎.
The first few moments are kind of important. Starting off, most women like their pussies licked pussy to clit or even ass to clit. I might mix it up with a little tongue fucking and sucking on her pussy lips, still keeping my tongue actively working on her pussy and her clit while sucking.
As I'm doing different things in the first few minutes, I'm also listening to what she's responding to. Her breathing, her moaning, her sighs. Some women will just take come right out and tell you what they want LOL. Which is always good! But most will not. Particularly if it's the first time. So you've got to be sensitive and responsive to nonverbal cues.
Although French kissing the pussy and licking and sucking her pussy lips are fun, most women, I'd say 90%, want you to settle into a steady motion and a rhythm after about 10 minutes or so. Focussed on ONE thing. Her clit! Almost every woman finds frequent stopping and starting and constant changing of motion and pressure to different parts of the pussy to be annoying. Most really want you to be honed in on that clit! That pearl of pleasure that is the Alpha and the Omega of her ecstasy and joy.
So that's what I end up doing....
Since it is the first time, there is still a period where she needs to relax. She has to be able to trust that you're not going to do all that stopping and starting and that you are going to stay with the task as long as it takes. That may take a half hour to 45 minutes. Of steady tongue flicking over her clit. And even then if no one has ever eaten her for a long time most women are worried that you are tiring out, that she's taking too long, that she really needs to come, etc, etc, etc. All that mental crap that took the joy out of the experience for her in the first place. So your persistence is very important.
Once she has faith that you are in it for the long haul and you keep that steady rapid flicking motion on that clit, you're almost home. Now as long as you stay focused on her clit, you can do other things too add to her excitement. And sometimes she will tell you. This might be circling your fingers playfully around her pussy hole or even moving them into her pussy and massaging and rubbing e floor and walls to stimulate her. Or it may be playfully rolling your finger or your thumb gently around her ass. Many a woman who has never had this done is ecstatic to discover that her ass is an erogenous zone!!! And that it feels great to have it played with!!! 😲😲😲😲 I usually don't take license to do this kind of thing until the second or third orgasm and I know that she's totally locked in on her pleasure. She may also want to change positions. Climb on your face or have you eat her from behind..
So they're all kinds of variations on the theme. But in the end, almost as much as your skill, her pleasure and her ability to cum rests on her ability to relax. You can get her there if you are deliberate and sensitive and persistent and if you listen to what she's telling you with her body and her expressions of pleasure.